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\u2018You haven\u2019t done enough prep for this.\u2019<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2018What happens if you don\u2019t say the right thing?\u2019<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2018Are you really qualified to do be doing this work?\u2019<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2018They sound like they know more than me.\u2019<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2018I don\u2019t think I can do this.\u2019<\/p>\n\n\n\n

These are some of the statements of doubt that have at times gripped me through the years.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sometimes debilitatingly so.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I know I can\u2019t banish the thoughts of doubt altogether. I have learned that I can strengthen the voice of self-trust.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The book, Th<\/a>e Courage To Be Disliked<\/a><\/em> is one of the best books I read in 2020. It discusses the work of a leading voice on individual psychology, Alfred Adler. Adler, the book outlines, sees two elements as being key to live life well. One being to trust ourselves. <\/u><\/strong>The other, for completeness, being that people are our comrades<\/u><\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So how do we grow and strengthen the voice of inner-trust? Well, here\u2019s two ideas to start:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Look to the evidence:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

In moments when you feel that doubts and self-trust can equally take control of your thinking, take a step back. Ask yourself, when I have dealt with a situation like this before? And in these past similar scenarios, how did I fare? In my experience of working with people 1-1 or through the Next Chapter series, the answer is, more often than not that; you dealt with the situation well<\/u><\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And when you\u2019ve never before experienced something like a situation that you currently face. A question that can allow helpful reflection is; what of my experience is relevant and beneficial to try and tackle this situation? Again, the answer tends to be; a lot<\/u><\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

By stepping back, you uncover the true grounds for trusting yourself in a situation. And it very often turns out be very solid grounds indeed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Seek a voice of truth:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Adler tells us to really buy into the belief that people are our comrades. It is a helpful principle to follow in building self-trust. Seek the genuine voice in your network when you need to get a perspective on the level of self-trust you should take into a situation. A voice that you value and respect. And listen to what they have to say. You just might hear very solid evidence as to why you should trust yourself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Do your weekly trust work:<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

People hit up the gym 3\/4 times a week to work out. People hit the roads 3\/4 times a week to run. I encourage you to, as often as possible each week, do your self-trust work. These two ideas above could help shape that work.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I trust you to do the work.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This blog is based on one of the six key motivational themes of the Inspo Next Chapter Series. It\u2019s a motivational series helping the staff of businesses to map out the best post-pandemic chapter in their work and personal lives. Could the Series be of benefit to your business? If so, please do get in touch at john@inspo.ie to learn more about the Series.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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