This is classic summer. Sun out, Wimbledon on. I\u2019ve been playing my own version of Wimbledon lately. Tennis tournaments across Dublin that is. The standard I play at is a mere fraction on show currently at SW19. That being said, the tournaments have made me appreciate the \u2018win or lose\u2019, \u2018live or die\u2019 environment that tennis professionals operate in.<\/p>\n
In a mixed doubles game three weeks ago, my playing partner and I played cautiously against more daring opponents. We lost. Last week, in a different tournament, it felt like deja vu. We started to retreat into our shell mid-match. This time though, we realised that we had to play our own game and be courageous or we were out. We won.<\/p>\n
I\u2019ve learned from these last few weeks that in knockout sports, you\u2019ve two options. You can \u2018live knowing\u2019 or \u2018die wondering\u2019. Sport is not life or death. There are much greater challenges in life which people face for which the words \u2018life or death\u2019 present a much greater significance. Whilst acknowledging these facts, I do believe the conceptual approach of \u2018live knowing\u2019 has great relevance in how we live life.<\/p>\n
Opportunities in life present themselves on occasion. I know I\u2019m not on my own when I say there\u2019s been opportunities which I have let pass me by that have left me wondering. Adopting a \u2018live knowing\u2019 approach has so much upside potential for us to live life well.<\/p>\n
Here\u2019s two things I\u2019ve learned about the \u2018live knowing\u2019 approach in the last three weeks:<\/p>\n
You must know what you want:<\/strong><\/p>\n In the tennis game three weeks ago, my partner and I had no agreed strategy for how we wanted to play. Therefore, all we could do is respond to the strategy of our own opponents. But their strategy was designed to suit them, not us. If we have no strategy for our career we will likely move, or be moved, in the direction that works for others i.e. your boss, recruiters etc. That is not a \u2018live knowing\u2019 approach. To \u2018live knowing\u2019 we must create our own strategy for our career. From this, we can take the action needed to can make our strategy come to life.<\/p>\n \u2018Live knowing\u2019 is difficult:<\/strong><\/p>\n The match three weeks ago was a lot easier to play. We had to think very little. We just had to play our shots. Our opponents dictated the pattern of play. But we lost. Last week was completely different. It required much more energy and focus to keep playing our own game. But it was much more exhilarating, pride-injecting and rewarding. It\u2019s very easy to continue along a steady path in work and life and let others make calls around us and for us. It\u2019s harder to plot and navigate your own course. But it\u2019s far more exhilarating and rewarding when you do.<\/p>\n Can a \u2018live knowing\u2019 approach be kept up every day? I don\u2019t know.<\/p>\n Is it worth trying?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" This is classic summer. Sun out, Wimbledon on. I\u2019ve been playing my own version of Wimbledon lately. Tennis tournaments across Dublin that is. The standard I play at is a mere fraction on show currently at SW19. That being said, the tournaments have made me appreciate the \u2018win or lose\u2019, \u2018live or die\u2019 environment that […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[136,158,137],"tags":[135,149,140,142,204],"yoast_head":"\n